Listen: Holly Wainwright and Andrew Daddo discuss whether toddlers can sense their mums are pregnant, on the This Glorious Messpodcast. When your toddler or child has finished exploring, a whole new world of adventure begins with our unique soft toy, Tod!. I have irregular periods so I'm not due for 3 to 5 days probably.. this is driving me nuts!!! Your post will be hidden and deleted by moderators. So, I bet that they can smell the shift in your hormones! She sounds very sweet, btw! I thought at one point that it was my urine/CM/general smell that was stronger and smelt awful when really it was just that I could smell it more. Archived discussions are usually a bit older and not as active as other community content. I wasn't on BC because I was nursing and didn't want the hormones to affect my supply. Most mainstream pregnancy tests are held under a stream of urine. But I knew! When someone comes near me, he actually steps right in front of me. DH calls me Dr. Doolittle. Can older children sense you're pregnant before BFP? But not every mum had such a sweet moment with their child and pregnancy, as one woman pointed out. Ok this is completely crazy but do you think toddlers can sense pregnancy? Intuitive wrote (not a mum!) TMI - I always have very loose stools. Bloating 4. then i had 2 smokes, and a shower felt extremely faint in the shower and i love my hot showers, so i decided to test afterwards, who knew BFP (clearblue) then i tested 2 hours after to make sure (first response) BFP, then i was like okay, i'll do another test in the morning first pee just to 100% confirm, (clearblue digital) 2 - 3 weeks pregnant. He said that the way I smelt had changed . Was she clingy? Already back at work 3.5wks pp long rant about SO. As it turns out, the pregnancy predictions of kids do come true. My daughter is 3 this month and she has started wanting to lay on my stomach to go to sleep. This pregnancy though, I did not get cramping prior to when AF was due, but I aslo didn't have AF after my MC and before my bfp. She (the pup)has been pregnant twice. She is 5, she said come on mommy we got to feed that baby boy in your belly. My dog totally knows. After all, they do like to mimic what we say, so they will likely be saying baby quite a bit once youre talking to them about your pregnancy. About a week and a half before my BFP my cat wouldn't come near me, and she is usually very cuddly. p.s first post, first day. I looked down to see if I had a fat role and my stomach was flat. Because of these 2 things, I have been symptom spotting like a crazy woman and convinced myself I'm pregnant this cycle and AF isn't due until the 19th Feb! The Picture One mom claims that her toddler daughter arrived home one day from daycare with a drawing she made of mommy, daddy, herself, and a new baby brother! The short answer is yes; cats can sense pregnancy. A Group Owner is a member that has initiated the creation of a group to connect with other members to share their journey through the same pregnancy & baby stages. I was thinking that also. I hold her like a baby and scratch her tummy. I had implantation bleeding with baby #1. She wouldntgo in the same roomshe was in or go to her for anything. Group Leaders communicate with staff moderators and escalate potential violations for review, but they dont moderate discussions. Af arrived 2 days late. I am only 6 weeks and we won't tell him for another 8 weeks or soso idk where that came from lol! Two days later I got my BFP. Find advice, support and good company (and some stuff just for fun). I hope this helps. Therefore, it might be best to start telling your toddler as soon as it is practical for you. Can you imagine your 16-month-old son placing his hands on your belly, giving ita kiss and saying mummy, baby? But last night I was in bed watching TV and not feeling very well and she just sat next to meand stared at me for the longest time. My sense of smell shot through the roof at about 7dpo! Over the past several weeks, he has been even closer and always resting his huge head on my abdominal area. We respect everyones right to express their thoughts and opinions as long as they remain respectful of other community members, and meet What to Expects Terms of Use. Group Black's collective includes Essence, The Shade Room and Naturally Curly. That's because I feel like it prohibits me from having a productive day and makes me even more tired. My cat and dog both acted very weird even before I tested. On several occassions she has asked if she could go back to her mom's house house and other times she has asked why i have to always be around. Share. Crazy - But can cats sense pregnancy before you find out?! My friend (now 24 weeks pregnant with #2) didn't have a positive pregnancy test until she was 6 weeks pregnant. Smells are usually most intense in the early months of pregnancy and diminish . Which he has never done before. I just had my period the last day was the 9 and since the 10th my 4 year old has been kissing my stomach saying mommy the baby i wanna kiss the baby. According to the Humane Society of the United States, a cat's sense of smell is 14 times as strong as ours. My dog even had 2 accidents inside and she NEVER does that. Although research hasn't confirmed a heightened sense of smell during pregnancy, about two-thirds of pregnant women say they are more sensitive to scents, a condition called hyperosmia. I have no idea when I actually O'd this month. I would have thought IF I am pregnant and the HCG levels were enough to cause these symptoms, surely it would have come up as a BFP on the HPT this morning?? If you are worried about your pregnancy in any way, how your toddler will cope with the news, or even how you will cope with dual care, your toddler will be able to pick up on that. It was very strange. It never gets old . W/my 3rd and 4th pregnancies, I SWEAR my younger DC'n were all over me, as if they were afraid it was the last time they were going to see me! Despite many people sharing their own stories online, there doesnt appear to be a scientific basis that toddlers can sense pregnancy as such. I think so because my 3 year old dog is very protective of me. Funny thing is I haven't even mentioned to dbf that I might be pregnant again! Please whitelist our site to get all the best deals and offers from our partners. Dog's are smarter than we think. I thought I was the only one thinking this crazy thing! She has since come around, probably because I spoiled her on Christmas, but I think she knew. **I completely apologize that I wrote a mini novel here. One has been a mother, and she "knew" I was pregnant before I did. Toddlers are perceptive. She doesn't sleep in bed with us that often, since she has her own room with a bed. I really hope I get my BFP this month and that that little girl is psychic lol!!! I still havent told her the news but she talks about the baby in my belly every day and how she cant wait to become a big sister. You've made the decision and you are actively trying to conceive. I was wondering if anyone had early pregnancy symptoms before they got their BFP? I dont' know for sure; but I really hope so!!! I think dog's can sense something is different. TMI to follow - before I got my BFP, I noticed my hoo ha smelled differently. Anyway, I'm currently 10dpo with a regular 27-28 day cycle. You might be taking short rests throughout the day that you never took before. She follows me everywhere now. She hasn't been barking just has been very alert and protectiveof me. He has been a thousand tmes more protective of me than usual. especially for the dog lovers. But when I was pregnant with DD I couldn't go anywhere near poo (I worked in daycare)! I also know whether it's sticking or not. Studies have shown that spending time with a domesticated animal can improve mood, reduce depression, lower blood pressure, and even help you live longer. gas, on edge with no patience, mild cramps, peeing a lot, boobs slightly tender 10 dpo- emotional, gas, hot and sweaty, tired, diarrhea, insomnia, boobs tender Foolproof evidence may not exist, but claims from animal experts and fur parents are enough at the moment. The #1 app for tracking pregnancy and baby growth. Oh my goodness this made me almost cry! I couldnt stomach one of my favorite foods with baby #3 before I even had a missed period. My OB says she thinks animals can definitely sense the change in hormones. Get weekly updates on baby and your body. 1997-2023 BabyCenter, LLC, a Ziff Davis company. I've been having on and off cramps and yesterday on 6dpo still lotion like cm xx, Hiya hun we get a secondary estrogen surge around 7dpo that can cause fertile cm I get it most months so it doesn't mean you will or won't unfortunately but I've got everything crossed for you! Will you be able to conceive? I don't normally get cramps with AF or when I O. I had cramping 4-5 days before AF was due for my first 2 pregnancies and got my bfp the next day, so 3-4 days before AF was due. no dreams Implantation bleeding, cramping, and major bloating! Please specify a reason for deleting this reply from the community. My son was 2 and he started to lift up my top I said what are you doing? Ok, so the first thing that has me prematurely high hoped is that my monthly (Feb) horoscope said I 'would get some exciting pregnancy news' this month. 20052023 BabyCenter, LLC, a Ziff Davis company. Here is my story: I had a couple of "lightbulb" moments before I got my BFP.. the first one was when I fell asleep in the middle of a movie at the movie theater haha and the second one was when I randomly got this disgusting metal taste in my mouth, like I was making out with someone who was wearing braces haha. I love hearing all the different stories! They don't want to leave my side, meow and whine constantly to me, not DH. Before we knew we were pregnant our one-and-a-halfyear old put his foot on my stomach and said baby. My stomach was also warm to the touch. Group Leaders arent expected to spend any additional time in the community, and are not held to a set schedule. Had the weirdest and craziest very vivid dreams! Bleeding / spotting 5. My first I was in Jamaica and I was all of a sudden nausea just walking on the beach and had major aversion to coffee which was odd, This pregnancy no nausea or aversions yet but I had major mood swings and I had insomnia. I lost the baby in April and almost over night she went back to loving me unconditionally. What to Expect has thousands of open discussions happening each day. A Group Owner is a member that has initiated the creation of a group to connect with other members to share their journey through the same pregnancy & baby stages. This educational content is not medical or diagnostic advice. theres a shortened version at the end loli am our babys primary care giver 24/7. But when I was pregnant with DD I couldn't go anywhere near poo (I worked in daycare)! and that is causing him to be more concerned and not that he actuallyknows there is a little one on the way! Toddlers may start doing things like rubbing or cuddling your tummy out of the blue, causing you to think that toddlers can, indeed, sense pregnancy. So why couldnt a toddlercatch a whiff of a brewing baby? my dog is always like that- follows me to each and every room and under my feet! Is this a sign of pregnancy? I've been wondering the same thing. I have a puggle-baby who will be 1 year in February who has been acting the same as PP's - following me around, sleeping on my side of the bed, having accidents in the house. I took a test on the onset of symptoms and got a BFN. The dog jumped up, looked around the house, and then stared right at me as if to say: where's the baby?? 2005-2023Everyday Health, Inc., a Ziff Davis company. DPO 14. Save. Which, for him, already being VERY protective, is kinda insane. My fresh cats seem to love me more since I got a positive. If you feel a message or content violates these standards and would like to request its removal please submit the following information and our moderating team will respond shortly. She never even knew I was pregnant, or that we had lost the baby. The #1 app for tracking pregnancy and baby growth. What to Expect supports Group Black and its mission to increase greater diversity in media voices and media ownership. This educational content is not medical or diagnostic advice. "AWE MOMMY!!! X. A toddler who feels secure is going to behave better, but this will also inform how their self-confidence builds throughout their life. This pregnancy I dont remember any dreams but every month leading up to my bfp I was having the same dream that I would see a baby foot pushing out my tummy and I would grab it through my. Share the highs and lows, and meet other women experiencing the same concerns. I was just talking to DH about this the other day and it does seem like he "knows" something is going onthen I wonder, it could be that I'm acting different (mood swings, crying, etc.) 20062023 BabyCenter, LLC, a Ziff Davis company. She also randomly started saying baby, a new word from her and one that we don't really. Clarehc. And I was! What to Expect supports Group Black and its mission to increase greater diversity in media voices and media ownership. Sore boobs with #1! and exhausted. I don't know if it's coincidence or if theres something . Have you heard of this before? s. Spammi. Mood changes 8.. So it was way unexpected! So is it possible that your child could pick up on these hormones? He HAS to be by me. Due to test Wed but may not be able to hold out that long! Although the dogsmay not know what the difference in scent means,they can sense that something is different. Not sure but my LO asked me about 4 weeks ago if i had a baby in my belly, i laughted it off and said no as me and my partner wasn't TTC. Share the highs and lows of this time, and meet other women going through the same as you. I too, think she knows. Ive been feeling nauseous for days and threw up today and outta no where my son said mommy theres a baby in your tummy, I havent taken a test or anything yet but been freaking out ever since.. Or have your dogs been acting strange? I think that they can sometimes sense something different, especially if their mama has been acting differently. We love her and treat her like our child. We assured him that we wold have a baby in God's time, but that it just wasn't right now. BFP: big fat positive (baby's on board!) BFP strips are dipped into a sample of collected urine instead of being held directly in the urine stream. I read this while AF was still here (I'm currently 6dpo) and my horoscope as never said anything about pregnancy before. 2 days later tested positive they are so clever xxx. I have 2 dogs and so far no change -- they are still trying to jump all over me and it's getting to bea lot to handle. She is very protective as she sits either on my stomach or my legs. He won't let me out of his sight and sleepson my side of the bedevery night. She is so well-behaved and trained but lately has really been acting up for attention, it seems. She always curls up on my belly and is very protective of me. EPT: early pregnancy test hCG: human chorionic gonadotropin (a hormone produced during pregnancy; elevated levels result in a positive pregnancy test) [2] HPT: home pregnancy test PG: pregnant POAS: pee on a stick (take a home pregnancy test) Little things like uploading a profile picture make the community a better place. Before I found out this time, the moment I opened the front door I was smelling things like cinnamon from muffins I'd baked days ago that were sitting in the fridge in the kitchen at the back of the house. ? Please select a reason for escalating this post to the WTE moderators: Connect with our community members by starting a discussion. If you don't have the time to read through all of it, there is a list of some questions at the end that I would like to know if anyone else has experience with. Breastfeeding: the trick to a comfy latch. Didn't want to read and run but hope you get your bfp. June 2012. Most recently, he has been growling at neighbors or people he sees through the window (which he's always done ina way, but now he sounds lessplayful). However, its true that your toddler can sense change and stress. Thanks for sharing everyone! I have a 4 year old, but she hasn't really acted differently. Fatigue. June 2012. It can also sense that a female is pregnant even before getting the test results. I was just helping my 5yo DD in the toilet, and the smell of her poo, nearly made me vomit - normally something like this wouldn't bother me in the slightest! why?, i don't know, I just did Any way, she smiled and replied "I know" then walked off and continued playing! 1 week later I tested positive! so hard to tell with me- but i have noticed that instead of sleeping in her bed, she will sometimes come lay by me next to the couch- which is not her typical self (she loves her bed) and when she hears something outside, she has been coming over to lay with me and stands alert but doesn't overly freak out and run to the door like she does normally- its funny to watch- sweet dog, while on the topic of dogs- everyone must go see Marley and Me- what a great movie!! Sounds like your little pooch may be very intuitive! She told me that she was over me. Thought I was in there for a bit. And constantly tells me there's a baby in there. wow. Advertisement. Theres a variety of anecdotal evidence out there. Anyways, yes, if *I* could smell a difference, I think your dog would too. With baby #4 I had terrible period cramps, but no period. So, if youre concerned about miscarriage, and would rather not share the news with others until then, it might be best to keep it quiet from your toddler until 12 weeks if you possibly can. He even sleeps outside the bathroom door while I'm in the shower. I do think animals have a 6th sense. All of these changes will be apparent to your toddler who may not necessarily sense the pregnancy, but that something new is definitely happening. And even stranger-- and I fully realize how crazy this sounds - we were watching a movie and in it, a baby starts to cry. I'm thinking that it may be my mind screwing with me and maybe these "symptoms" are just my body and mind tricking me into thinking/hoping I could be UTD. What do you all think? From infancy, our children can detect secondhand stress . You know how I know you're pregnant? You might think its just an old wives tale but there is something to be said for intuition. People are far less likely to share this kind of story! i tested 4 days after my period was due. I think my daughter knows (we haven't told her yet). I'd hope that this doesn't last the entire 9 mo. So 11DPO I took a test at 2am cuz I couldnt sleep and what do you know . Very interesting! She has gotten better, but at first, she was having accidents in the house and going through the trash to get attention. Hope this is it for you hun. I did an HPT this morning with FMU at got a BFN. And if so, how long after the onset of symptoms before you got your BFP? We weren't even trying yet. My nephew told my sister he was going to get a baby sister soon, at the time her husband ad her were about to divorce, plus it took her a long time to conceive my nephew so she just laughed it off, lo and behold the next month she found out she was pregnant. Group Owners uphold the core values of the brand by reporting content that violates the community guidelines. I get a bit lost with it all. Absolutely! Yes! Its helping me stay positive that someone else had this same combination of symptoms. I was just talking to a friend and they have an english bull dog that they breed. Using Conceive plus. I thought maybe thread about people who knew 100% that they were pregnant before their BFP might help others who think they are "crazy",lol. Mine has always snuggled with me and DH at night on the couch (87 lb lab, snuggle??). Both pregnancies I got a crazy sense of smell early on. Weird tho. I have 3 dogs and one is 70lbs. Seriously though, I have noticed that she is being more defiant and pushing the bounderies more lately. My son 3 told me I have a baby in my tummy I said really but we have Kenzie (my 4 month old at the time). . I'm due for AF on Sunday. Its deff a possibilityi have a 5 year old nephew and hes like another son to me but when i got preggers with my first i didnt really notice a difference in him, but every child is different and can sense different things. He alwayssniffingtoo! She follows me everywhere and never lets me out of her site. lol my sister swears thats why my niece is so mean to me now because its probably going be a girl. If so, how long does it last? I have noticed at night she has to curl up right by my belly (yes, she sleeps with me). This is my second month TTC #2 and this month a couple of crazy things have happened and made my symptom spotting brain go crazy! Maybe that was why. So I think animals definitely know, sometimes before we do. 24/04/2009 13:47. My dog has been following me around the house for the last 2 weeks constantly! My son who is almost 7 started talking last week about the nickname for the bang and how he'll help. We werent trying, so we had no clue that I was pregnant. She will be one next month. Create an account or log in to participate. The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of What to Expect. But then I found out that im pregnant and had a miscarriage in January. Like you are growing so big, its time to get you a big kid bed! Or you love to read so much, were going to make you your very own reading nook where the rocking chair used to go.. ?Anyway, I think the answer is yes. I had implantation bleeding with baby #1. It was really strange, and he had never done it before. He was like "Omg you're pregnant right now! Multi-sensory adventures for busy people from 13 months to 5 years! but it does make me wonder if she really can sense it. Your post will be hidden and deleted by moderators. This discussion is archived and locked for posting. We asked what she meant and she said, "you know,"! Sometimes the outcome is no what we wished for but I hope we all got our bfp soon! 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